There are stereotypes circulating about every walk of life. We all know that it is wrong to generalize, and that there are always 'exceptions' to what is widely believed about a particular group. Stereotypes are simply exaggerations and broad generalizations of looks or behavior of groups. It is said that there is certainly an element of truth behind the ideas that we would consider to be stereotypes. When it comes to homosexuality, do many of them actually fit the stereotype, or are there only a small few who fit the mold?
Can you tell if a man is gay by looking at him? Some people say that you can. There is a certain way that a man stands, sits, walks and dresses that is typically considered 'gay.' Commonly, it is the flexed hand, feminine twitch in the walk, and a feminine lean (with the hip sticking out to one side) when they stand. It has also been said that there is a particular look within a gay man's eyes that tells you he is homosexual. This look in the eyes is something that is very difficult to actually describe, and only some people can actually see this 'gay' look in a man's eyes.
Can you tell if a man is gay by his interests? Some people think that it's possible. An interest in hair, make-up, and fashion are often considered as feminine or 'gay' characteristics. There are many confirmations of gay men in these professions however, not all men in these professions are gay. Some gay men have 'normal' manly jobs. Men who are concerned with their appearance and do certain things, like wax or keep their nails nice, may be a straight metro-sexual.
How can you tell the different between a metro-sexual and a gay man? There is no real obvious or explainable indicator of this. A man who spends more time and money on his appearance than the average male is not always gay. Perhaps you can look in their eyes to see if you can find 'the look.' If they don't walk or stand in a feminine way, then how can you really tell that they are gay?
Is it possible to tell that a man is gay by the sound of his voice? Many people might say so. The truth is that many gay men do have softer, higher pitched, more feminine voices. Of course, there are muscular, very masculine men with deep voices that are gay.
Is there really any way to tell? I suppose it depends on that person. If they are trying to make a point about their sexual orientation, it will be obvious. If they are not, it will probably be more difficult to tell. There are signals within the gay community that help gay men find each other. Perhaps it takes one to know one. Otherwise, some straight people have a sort of sixth sense when it comes to spotting someone gay. I would say, when in doubt, ask, but you never know how they will react.
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